Watching Meaghan McCain’s emotional eulogy for her father this morning, I was mesmerized, like most of the nation. One section really hit home for me:
“John McCain was not defined by prison, by the Navy, by the Senate, by the Republican Party, or by any single one of the deeds in his absolutely extraordinary life,” she said at Saturday’s ceremony at the Washington National Cathedral. “John McCain was defined by love.”
Ms. McCain gave us all an additional gift this morning, a revelation about Senator McCain’s relationship with his family, a facet of his extraordinary life into which many probably did not have much insight. Her words provided an additional gift for me, she reminded me of my one, chance encounter with Senator McCain.
It was 2009, and I was waiting at the Southwest gates for a flight back to the Bay area from Phoenix Sky Harbor airport. I looked over to the next gate and saw small, gray-haired man in a suit standing for his flight. It took me a minute to realize it was the Senator. He flew Southwest! I took the opportunity and walked over to introduce myself and thank the Senator for his service. He smiled and asked me about myself.
I only told him two things. My father was a Navy veteran (Korean war) and that I worked at Cisco. He smiled and looked me straight in the eye and told me to thank my father for his service. I lost my father almost 2 years ago to the same aggressive brain cancer, glioblastoma, but got to share that message from Senator McCain.
Cisco’s then CEO and Chairman John Chambers was close to Senator McCain and played a key role in the 2008 campaign. I asked Senator McCain if there was anything he wanted to tell John Chambers. This is what he said:
“Cisco is a great company and you have a great leader. Tell John I said hello and am thinking about him. I owe him a call. Tell him that I love him.”
I flew back to San Jose and wondered about what it would be like to share a message of love with my Chairman from a legendary American. I left John Chambers a voicemail and passed on the message.
Later that evening, I checked my voicemail and there was a response from the boss.
“Alan, thanks for sharing the message,” stated John Chambers. “Senator McCain is a great American and a great person. I love him too.”
Rest in peace great American and thank you, Meaghan McCain, for reminding us all of the ultimate power of love.
*Si vis amari, ama — If you want to be loved, love.